
So I was taking my usual tram trip to work on Friday and was pleased to see the very elegant lady whom I have spotted on a few occasions board my tram.
I must admit I am the first for a girl crush and this woman is elegance and "Anna Wintoreqsuque" in all her glory. At least sixty y.o IMHO – she is a lanky, almost skeletal creature, with a perfectly styled grey bob and always considered in her fashion choices – she was wearing a lovely Lady Ga Ga style black jacket with slight shoulders, long gorgeous black stump boots and a long skirt (but not those dowdy long ones – incase that is what you are imagining!), I could see a crisp while shirt poking slightly from her jacket, her serious and intimidating face bruiting a red lipstick – expertly applied.
I looked as she muffled (elegantly with her spindly fingers) around her LV bag for her MIKI pass. MIKI is new, for trams and something I have refused to give thought to until I absolutely had to – yet here I was a young woman, seeing this older creature of soughts truly showing that she was an innovator by nature from what I could see, and someone who took the time to care about themselves – in appearance and in their surrounds. She was informed and made sure her finger was always on the pulse of what was new (ok, in my head anyways … from what I could imagine in my twenty minute ride – so don’t judge me!).
Now, I consider myself a somewhat informed public – I have a degree, I read the papers (ok I am forced to as part of work: from the Herald Sun to the AFR), I keep informed with politics, I am against human traffic for the sex-industry, I try and keep myself up-to-date with social media comings and goings and I heart my innovator beauty bloggers). Yet, for the first time in almost a year since being overseas – this woman made me wonder. Why do we want to be informed of the latest? And what motivates us to care about our appearance (physical/societal terms)? Why do we care?
I have made an effort to not care about my appearance so much since my stint overseas and my work in the private sector. Although yes, I do wear a full face of makeup and spend a lot of money on my hair – while I have been told I frequently look like I put in “a lot of effort” twenty minutes of getting ready … well it does not even bleep on my past effort register (yes in my mind I create registers for things). Instead I have found myself choosing the love of beauty products and carefully planned outfits for the “safety” of being average (again, the average register in my head) and just a face in the crowd … and here was an old chick with her MIKI pass inspiring me – infact for the first time in almost six months I wore my heels home, on the tram – with smug satisfaction, and I learnt about the MIKI pass.
Note to self: don’t stop caring, the world has a lot to offer and we are fortunate enough to be in a position to be informed. I am going to be that annoying innovator, pulse consider yourself informed!